"Fake it till you make it."? Seriously???

Have you ever heard or used the phrase "Fake it till you make it."? It’s catchy isn’t it? Really easy to say because it rhymes. I think it supposed to be supportive, saying keep trying until you get there” but the words aren’t supportive, not really.

Although pep-talking yourself into smiling and walking tall will absolutely raise your energy and your mood (backed by science, by the way) a better, or more empowering use of words will go a long way to helping you change your whole mindset forever, not just for a moment, and much more quickly than the fake it thing.

I have very strong feelings about the word fake as applied to myself or anyone who is endeavoring to empower themselves to be more fully their own authentic self.

From the perspective of the collective unconscious and its social programming, saying the phrase is the same as saying you can't really do it and it's not really real and you're being deceitful… Just keep pretending and maybe it'll get real and maybe no one will notice that you have little belief in yourself and you're faking it.

It is, in reality, a very low-energy phrase which is attempting to say something along the lines of the following statements…

Act as if it is true until it becomes truth in fact

Or

Act as if it is until it is

Or

Be it until you see it. (This one also rhymes)

Or 

Practice it until it's a habit -or- Practice good habits 

I recommend using any combination of high-energy, empowering words you choose… Losing the low energy word "fake".  

All we are is already within us, when we stop pretending it isn't, then we become what we truly are, instead of trying to make ourselves be what we are not.

Just saying...
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We choose the quality and the content of our own life and create our own personal landscape

Through taking responsibility for our life, in owning that we are the creators of our life, and recognizing that whatever our parents did or didn't do for us, it is up to us to make it into the life we want, we are empowering ourselves for wholeness.

We must do this with compassion for ourselves and others, without blame or shame. Knowing that if our life and inner landscape are not what we want them to be, we have the power within ourselves to make it different.  Accepting ourselves as we are, where we are, is the first step in embracing and empowering our own life.

We must do this for ourselves first, because it is through this personal empowerment that we can actually know what Love is… this is what will shift the world fully over onto the "good" side of the fence.

Take off the colored glasses, pull open the curtains and

take a look what's really outside your own personal matrix…

It's too easy to accept and believe what we're told without checking it out for ourselves… 

If you don't think that's true, take a look around you at all the highly emotional interchanges between people about stuff because of semantics, spiritual orientation, politics or television shows which just doesn't matter in the Long Run or the Big Picture. 

And it seems to me that what matters to some people is often determined by the ones out there with the biggest advertising budget and the canniest spin doctors! Then there are the sweet talkers who really don't know how to walk it…

You'll see it when you believe it*…

(*This is the title of a book by Dr. Wayne Dyer)

Circuses and Monkeys and Shifts… Oh my...

Heads up — if you notice that somebody who is usually mild-mannered & pleasant seems to be on a jag of whining, complaining and meanness, I believe that it is a typical pattern of behavior preceding a major thought shift and/or spiritual/mental/emotional transformation.

They're just kicking it up to the next level,

so give them a gold star...

 ...a round of applause

and, if you're a little over it, a real nice view of the back of you as you walk away from their negativity... even if only for a moment! 

       

Fall Back to MORE LIGHT!!!

We have permission to live in more Light.

Sanctioned by most states and many countries, we turn our clocks so that there's more daylight.  More time to shine. More time to spread the love. More time to consciously enjoy the sun.  

If the Government says so, it must be true, right?

Well, at least find a way to the light of truth in your own mind.

Go ahead.  Why not?

My thoughts have turned into dust bunnies!

I've been actually having a rough day today… Constantly dropping my thoughts on my way to fulfill a task…

Often, I had to go back to where I first had the thought and pick it up, put it in my pocket and take it with me so I could complete what I had to do.  Sometimes this worked... sometimes not.

There's lots of thoughts cluttering up my house right now, having been dropped on the way to another room and when I went back I couldn't find them again...


Now I'm in the process is taking a dustpan 
and picking them all up...                                               Although, I really might actually

need a front loader for that…

                                             

By the end of the week, if I'm lucky, 
I should have all my thoughts back in my head 
where they belong...